Allow yourself to be open to finding the next person, and learn/grow from the experience Realize that he didn't live up to your values and standards, he was not your soulmate, he was not ultimately right for you. If it ends- Don't look at it as if it's the end of the world.Make sure EARLY ON that your priorities align and you share the same values. Never ignore red flags or assume someone will change.
Don't get wrapped up in romance just because you want to be in a relationship. 
You need to be sure that you are getting what you need from him, and he needs to be sure that what he's getting from you couldn't come from anyone else. Let him earn your commitment by investing in you - supporting you, making an effort, treating you well. A guy must be evaluated by his qualities re: what he does for you - don't look at any other aspects of his life and confuse them for relationship material if he hasn't shown this toward you or done anything special regarding you. You can't just fake an exciting/fun/busy lifestyle, you actually have to live it. 
Let dating be a natural part of your lifestyle, and not this separate, intimidating thing. Visual chemistry + perceived challenge + perceived value + connection = long lasting attraction. I don't necessarily agree with all of his content but I'm including the stuff I found interesting or relevant and not too "pick me". Someone on here recently mentioned Matthew Hussey I read his book a few years ago and just found the notes I took.
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